Prevention-First Self-DefenceSimple to Remember. Built for Stress.
For parents of kids 6 to 18

What would your child do if...?

No lectures. No scary videos. Just a 5-minute "what if" you talk through together, ending with one simple rule.

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Tricks and Lures · Ages 6-12

What if you're at the park and an adult you don't know asks you to help find their lost puppy?

The rule to remember

Adults ask adults for help.

What if...

What if they say, "Please, it'll only take a minute"?

Same answer. A real adult will wait for your parent.

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Most parents know they should talk about bullying, strangers and online safety. Few know how to start. Lectures get tuned out, and one talk isn't enough. In the moment, kids do what they've practised.

Under stress, you don't rise to the occasion. You fall to what you can remember.
What you'll talk about

The talks parents put off.

34 scenarios, sorted by age and topic.

BullyingParents' top worry
Tricks and luresCar pickups, lost puppies
Online and AIGamers, chatbots, fakes
Home aloneSomeone at the door
People you knowSecrets, coaches
Out and aboutLost, walking home
Teens 16+Parties, rides, dating
SAFE What If? on a phone, showing a bullying scenario
How it works

Dinner table or car ride.

No prep. You don't need to know the answers. Each one shows SAFE's answer and why. In the car, your child holds the phone and reads. You keep your eyes on the road and just talk.

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Pick their ageEach age gets scenarios that fit.
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Read the "what if"Your child picks an answer.
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Say the ruleOne simple rule. Ask again next week.
A dad and his son smiling at a phone on the couch

"Wait, what would YOU do, Dad?"

Five minutes. One rule. And they'll want another.

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Built by Chris Roberts, SAFE International

Teaching young people to stay safe has been my priority since 1994, including 26 years of live programmes in high schools. Teachers told me year after year that SAFE was their favourite unit. At parent-teacher interviews, parents told them how glad they were SAFE was offered, and that their kids loved it.

SAFE What If? brings that same approach to your kitchen table.

21 of 25families in our first pilot said they would use SAFE What If? every week.
Since 1994200,000+ trained12+ countriesGlobal TVToronto Star
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Questions parents ask

Before you start

Will this scare my child?

No. Each scenario is a calm, everyday "what if." There are no scary pictures or stories. You choose the topics, and anything sensitive is marked so you can preview it first.

What ages is it for?

Ages 6 to 18. For 6-7, you read it aloud. For 8-10, read it together. From 11 up, they read and you talk.

Is this a course?

No. It's a conversation starter. Most scenarios take 2 to 5 minutes. Do one or two at dinner or in the car.

What does it cost?

Free access is free. There's also a full version for families who want every scenario and topic. You'll see it after you sign up. No pressure.

Do I need an app or a login?

No. It works in the web browser on any phone, tablet or computer.

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Prevention is the easiest thing to remember under stress. Because it happens before the worst of the stress hits.

Prevention-First Self-DefenceSimple to Remember. Built for Stress.

SAFE What If? is for education and discussion only. It is not a guarantee of safety and does not replace professional advice. In an emergency, call your local emergency number. © SAFE International. safeinternational.biz